Posts of Annoyance: 9 Annoying Types of Social Media Messages

Social media gives everyone an opportunity to share their message with the world, and if you’ve spent more than a minute viewing what your friends post online – it’s abundantly clear that this can be dangerous. At first, what we see on a daily basis is funny and entertaining, but as time goes by, we develop pet peeves, and things that we used to enjoy start annoying the crap out of us. On top of what our friends post, each social network has its own quirks that make it unique and features that some of us love, and others are driven away because of.  

From game invites to posts someone should’ve just kept to themselves, there’s a lot out there to annoy us. Here’s our take on the top nine most annoying things about social media.

#1. !!NOISE!!

Do this, play that, friend me, here’s a message, here’s a chat, how about a poke? Our social media channels are at a volume of 10 and they’re creating new numbers to turn it up to everyday.

Our profiles all started as an easy way to connect with people we know, they then started to expand and it hasn’t stopped since. We now have friend and follower lists in the thousands and everyone we’ve ever had a class with, worked with, or passed by on the street is a part of our social experience. In addition to the information coming from out contacts, we’re bombarded by ads, spam, and other unwanted messages by the second. Things get so cluttered that we need to download ten apps just to properly use one social media tool.

The social networks that are gaining traction now are focusing on helping limit the noise, instead of turning it up. Just look at Snapchat, or networks focused on a specific channel, like After School with schools.

#2. People Bashing

We all have our moments of frustration, but when did posting these frustrations to the world become a requirement?

Here are a few gems that recently showed up in my news feed: “10 years ago today I said “I love you” to my wife for the first time. That was dumb.” “My dog is more reliable than any man I’ve ever met…including my husband.” “Alright, we’re breaking up, but I’m takin back my favorite sweatshirt.” Okay, the last one was made up, but you get the picture. Posting to 500 people to put down one is not an efficient format for conflict resolution.

#3. Pushing Politics

With the political season coming up fast, get ready to read everyone’s opinion on the ol’ same tired debates. If we want to discuss politics, there’s probably more appropriate arenas to discuss them than to all of our online ‘friends.’ Broadcasting to all still has its benefits when trying to make a change in the world, but pushing political views on others who have their minds already made up can do more harm than good, and it’s one of the fastest ways to get us to ‘unfriend.’

#4. Nonstop Notifications

Our lives don’t run on likes and favorites…or at least they shouldn’t. Instead of spending hours managing notification preferences or sorting through 100 emails to see what’s worth responding to or not, how about we decide what we want to see? If you agree, like, share, favorite, and poke this article so I can receive four notifications in my inbox.

#5. Lack of context

Have you ever walked up to a group of people talking during the middle of a joke? Social media news feeds are full of funny stories and inside jokes, but for most of us viewing a message, it goes right over our heads. Sure, we could have someone go back over the whole joke so we understand what they’re talking about, but it’s easier just to let it go. Groups help people connect with a similar story and conversation, but crowded news feeds and random updates from strangers do nothing to add value to our lives or social media experience.

#6. Clickbait

It’s hard to go anywhere online without being baited to click on something you had no intention of visiting. Recommendations from trusted sources help us find new and interesting things to do and content to read and watch, but how many times does a clickbait image or article fail to deliver — how about 100%?

#7. Useless Metrics

Seriously, what are likes or favorites really worth? When we communicate with others, it’s not about getting a thumbs up or thumbs down. Actual engagement and starting conversations are much more important and beneficial than a virtual pat on the back.

#8. Begging from Strangers

“I need someone to help me move, who can help?”

“This blender is so awesome and now only $200. Who wants to buy it for me?”

“Looking for a job, let me know if you know of anything.”

If you haven’t seen a variation of one of the three above, you’re one of the lucky ones. Networking and relationship building has gone out of the window in favor of just throwing a message out to thousands hoping to get one bite. Nobody likes a beggar.

#9. SPAM

Spam is just as desirable as the canned mystery meat. Allowing websites, apps, and games to post for you on social media helps get you access to cool tools and websites, but is it worth spamming your friend list for eternity? Automatic posting is just one of hundreds of forms of spam on social media networks, and there are probably many more forms to come in the near future.

We can’t stop you or your friends from posting about their mean boyfriends or radical political views, nor would we want to, but Postly gives you the option to share messages with the groups and individuals who will most appreciate it, and save other messages for the rest of your network. Find out how Postly can make your social media experience simpler and a little less annoying. Sign up today – www.postly.co

Postly, the New Social Media that Doesn’t Make You Hate Your Life

Hate Your Life

In my wee 26 years on this planet, I’ve been through quite a few Social Media phases, corresponding and growing with my generation of self absorbed and needy millennials (yes we resent this and I imagine this perception will change in the next decade but this is neither here nor there).  My particular journey has been loyal to only four Social Media sites; first Xanga and then Myspace, eventually with those two becoming long gone exs lost to the Social Media giant Facebook for some time now (Twitter and it’s Hashtags be dammed). But now I’m cheating on Facebook, with a refreshing new Social Media platform that I find myself actually excited to use,

Postly:

 Icon← I already feel happier!

First there was Xanga. To this day I cringe remembering the sad confused confessions spat out by perpetually emotionally compromised teenagers (especially myself). Nonetheless, teens will be teens and the platform served it’s purpose of sharing content and thoughts outside school.

And now, many years later, enter Facebook. Now don’t get me wrong, this isn’t a complete trashing of Facebook alone. I begrudgingly like the app; it’s fun to see how your old buddies have grown from the awkward silent type to the surprisingly good looking and successful adult (and we’ve all seen and probably secretly enjoyed the opposite). Old and new friends drift in and out of one’s newsfeed to provide a constant stream of updates and entertainment.

The problem is, as Facebook has evolved, I enjoy getting online less and less. I’ve found my old friend list has exploded to a level of which not even 10% of my “friends” attempt to stay in touch, or even appear to give a damn what content I share (even after I gave up on the dreaded political rants!). My content has been drowned out by an excess of selfies and hashtags (Did I already say Twitter be dammed?), and admittedly and ironically I turn my nose up at 90% of the content myself, scrolling and scrolling and scrolling… Studies are even beginning to show the negativity that current Social Media can bring to the table, and the types of people it attracts and creates. Enter Postly.

Simple

Postly’s website states “At Postly, we let people share the way they want.” Content is shared between individual and private threads with friends or private groups (some of mine include “Epic beer and food shots” and “College buds”). One can post content to their story for everyone to see, however…Stories

No longer do I have to open another social media site when I’m bored and scroll through mostly meaningless (and sometimes offensive and irritating) content. I open Postly and I’m actually excited to see what my real friends have shared with me and the groups I’m in. Postly does away with “likes” and replaces them to a certain extent with a set of awesome emoji. It let’s me share a reaction with at least some shred of emotion and context.

emojis

For me, Postly is channeling time previously spent scrolling and glaring at my screen to time spent sharing hilarious and meaningful content with my friends that actually give a damn. Facebook (and yes… Twitter) will always have their places, however I don’t want to find myself in a mental state where getting 100 likes over a picture or the lack thereof has an effect on my mood.

While I don’t exactly hate my life because of current Social Media norms (I’m actually a happy dude I swear!), I sure as heck enjoy Postly a lot more. I’ve been able to have some great conversations with my friends, all while enjoying the veil of privacy that threads and groups provide.  So go find a few friends and get them to try out Postly with you, and you too can hate your life a little less because of Social Media*.

*results may vary  

By Jordan Suggs

Two Ways Online Ads Can Stop Sucking

Annoying Friend

Online ads are like that one person that won’t leave you alone no matter how hard you try to escape them. You know who I’m talking about, right? It always starts off innocent enough and you know deep down they aren’t a bad person, they just don’t get the hint that you’re trying your hardest to avoid them.

Ads can be exactly like the “friend” that never leaves you alone. They follow you from page to page and seem to pop up every place you visit.

There’s not much to like when it comes to the current state of online advertising. Pop-ups, banner ads, and spam emails — online advertisers have lost sight of providing opportunities. In other words, they suck. But, do online ads really have to?

Ads are a product, and if packaged the right way, they can bring value to both the “buyer” (the user) and the “seller” (website/app). There are many ways to package them, but we at Postly believe in a future of effective online ads that bring value to users on apps and websites will develop in two ways.

Decrease Frequency, Increase Relevance

Ads all over

Nearly every page we visit is littered with ads, most of them completely irrelevant to your online experience and preferences. We need to get back to the basics of selective selling and presenting valuable opportunities. By displaying a limited number of relevant ads to each user, engagement will increase while improving their experience. Just imagine how much nicer it would be to have white space again while you’re checking your email or replying to a thread from a friend.

An offer a session instead of a dozen ads sprinkled throughout each page is a win-win for advertisers and users. Even if displaying only an ad or two a session, it still has to be done delicately without obstructing the user experience, but by integrating something worthwhile into that experience, advertising transforms from “selling” to adding value.

Going Premium

Premium

Forcing ads down people’s throats and pushing away once-loyal customers is not the answer, nor is it the only option. Not everyone wants an ad-obstructed experience, and some may even be willing to pay for it.

For example, let’s assume a major social network averages $26 a year per user from advertising. If they provided the option to pay $25, or even $30, for a full year without having to see one advertisement, would you consider it?  We love free tools and resources, but wasting our time with ads and spam is a cost that many of us can do without.

Ad experiences should, and hopefully will, transition into something of value. Instead of having to wait 30 seconds until we get to continue our lives, maybe we’ll be able to choose to take 30 seconds to do something we want, whether that’s purchasing Star Wars tickets online for a discount, watching a movie trailer to win a sweepstakes, or get a dollar off our lunch at Chipotle. And if we don’t want any ads, we can pay a small premium to avoid them altogether.

Postly is on the “ads don’t have to suck” bandwagon, and promise not to disrupt the experience of our users with obtrusive ads. We welcome you to give Postly a chance and to experience how we believe social media should be.

What would make your app experience just as smooth while still being advertised to? Would you rather pay to avoid ads?

  • Aron Beierschmitt, Postly Founder & CEO

The Postly Story: Why the World Needs Another Social Network

Where we’re going to end up isn’t always clear in the beginning. Ever since social media began in the late 1990’s with sites like Six Degrees and various blogging platforms, it’s been changing and growing. It wasn’t until 2005 and 2006 that YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter started to set the standards of what we expect social media to look and feel like. Although many of the changes over the past decade have been positive, there’s still a lot to come in the near future.

You could say that Postly started years ago due to my frustrations with social media. Facebook gave us a way to communicate with almost anyone we knew, but there were limits with how we were able to create our own experience. Instead of allowing us to truly express ourselves and own our profiles, they put my posts side by side with app updates and other junk in the feed.

Instead of relying on Facebook or any other social media company to create an experience that I and similar Millennials wanted, I decided to lead the charge myself. I didn’t know exactly how I was going to do it at the time, but I took it upon myself to create something that gives people more freedom to express themselves through social media, and allows them to stay posted on the things they actually care about. After all, if we can’t show who we are or connect with what we care about, how deep and meaningful are the relationships we start and build through social media?

But Aron, there’s so much out there, how could something be missing?

Nobody was looking for a new social network when Pinterest, Instagram, or Snapchat came into our lives to provide a better experience. We too often settle for what’s already out there instead of sticking to what we actually want. Creating an amazing social product isn’t about reinventing the wheel or providing everything to everyone, it’s about making sharing, connecting, and in some ways, life, easier.

Enter Postly.

Unfortunately, building something simple and easy to use isn’t always easy. On top of that… making a social network people will love is near impossible to accomplish. Several years and many iterations after starting this project, the early version of Postly is ready for the world…or at least you and your friends.

Postly is a private, simple, and easy to use social network. You can have one-on-one threads with friends, create groups to share with, and choose who you share content with. We’ve traded out noisy news feeds and likes for clean and simple posting, just how it should be.

The hardworking Postly team includes myself — Aron Beierschmitt, software engineer and former Pizap Co-Founder & CTO Ryan Holoubek, designer Lean Wan and developer Tim Smith. We can’t wait to see what you have to share, that is if you want to share with us.Postly may be the new kid on the block, but the roots were planted over ten years ago, and we’re working hard to build a strong and valuable social experience that meets your needs and grows with you.

Ready to try Postly? Sign up here, invite a few friends, and see why we’re so excited about how Postly can simplify your social life and create stronger relationships with the people you care about.

-Aron